WOMEN UNCONTINUOUSLY FORGET FORGET THE IDEAL OF LIFE WHEN EVERYBODY RULES FOLLOWING TERMS

 The anxiety of reaching "major" milestones causes women to encounter many psychological obstacles, gradually forgetting their own real life purpose.

As women, especially Asian women, we are taught and educated that the approval of others is more important than what we think of ourselves. That is why Vietnamese women all have a “set limit” to meet during each stage of adulthood, from 20 to 30, 40, 50 and even until the end of life. Therefore, it is common to put personal goals behind to prioritize the expectations of others when these "deadlines" approach.

Short film “Limit to Life” made by ENAT

When the limitations called "perfect development roadmap"

It is not difficult to see that there is a seemingly ideal formula to help women solve life's problems:

“25 Stable Jobs”

“30 yen for the family”

“35 full children”

“40 whole family”

It sounds great when we have a route to follow. But is it really perfect?

When each girl, each woman is a separate individual, with different thoughts and aspirations. Some people prefer to travel the world instead of hanging around at home. Some people like to develop their career, take charge of their own life instead of relying on others. Others choose to be a single lady, free to explore the world instead of having children.

Screenshot from the short film "Limited to Life"

However, it is these limitations called "perfect development roadmap" that create invisible pressures that force women to race to conquer it, gradually depriving themselves of the right to live in accordance with their own desires.

Then somewhere deep in the soul always sobbed "In another life, I will live the way I want".

Screenshot from the short film "Limited to Life"

It is surprising that this mindset exists even among millennial women who have enough education, ability and opportunity to access information. They seem to struggle with "socially assigned tasks," but feel guilty if they don't meet those limits.

It's time we need to change this concept and make a revolution to change the perception from within ourselves.

The limit of life is up to you

The journey of growing up for each woman has no set of rules about the beginning and the end. Maturity is when a woman is aware of her identity, understands that she has the right to choose the image she wants to pursue, the person she wants to become.

And to live life like that, you have to struggle. Struggling to say no to unreasonable limits, fighting to get rid of stereotypically "evangelized" ideas, fighting to untie oneself from reference timelines.

It's only when you fight like that that you know it's the life you really want and that all the trade-offs you've made are totally worth it.

Today, there are many movements around the world that inspire women to break down barriers to live the way they want. In Vietnam, ENAT is a brand that always accompanies women in bravely pursuing their own values. And in this year 2022, Enat brings a powerful message "Living your life is up to you" on behalf of millions of women, encouraging them to boldly say no to unreasonable, strong limits. vigorously pursue your own limitations. Then live and shine brightly.

If you also agree with this statement, please share and spread it with ENAT to give courage to yourself as well as all women who can confidently live the way they want.

For the past 20 years, ENAT has always strived to bring her positive energy and radiant appearance, so that she is ready to take on new challenges and live a brilliant life in her own way!